“enchanting”
“heart-warming”
“a seismic inspiration”

Fifty Miles with my Dad

By May de la Rue


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Author: May de la Rue
Format: Hardback, with 50 colour plates
ISBN: 978-1-9162450-0-6
On Sale: April 7th, 2020

List Price: £18. Net proceeds are in aid of the ‘Fifty Miles with my Dad’ Fund at Suffolk Community Foundation.
Grants from the fund are made to charities and community groups supporting those with disability, the infirm and the vulnerable.



About

This is the true story of how a ten-year-old's charity challenge led through young philanthropy to a calling in medicine. Recalled by the girl as a young woman, it is a light-hearted but poignant memoir of parent-child journey, set amid the cultural and natural heritage of a beautiful part of the world.

  • May gives a moving account of a trek prompted initially by bereavement. Clashes of attitudes and interests give the dialogue a playful vein; but as the miles go by, often with no other person in sight, father and daughter find new depths of conversation. Relics of war prompt her to ask of past generations, whose legacies he tries to convey; and as she reconnects him with childhood, its innocence and imagination, both see their worlds from new perspectives.

    Having made front-page news their venture bears lasting fruit. She raises enough for a permanent endowment providing grants from its income, giving her a role in selecting local charities, and allowing her to see their work at first hand. As a budding musician she gains insight into the therapy that music can bring, and while still at school she becomes a recorded composer; meanwhile, seeing different forms of disability and treatment, she learns what fulfilment can be gained from making a difference.

    Warmly received as an enchanting and inspirational story, Fifty Miles with my Dad is a celebration of quality time and of rewards from philanthropy that are open to all.

  • May de la Rue is a medical student who was born in Suffolk and educated locally before moving to Rugby School, where she was a chorister, clarinettist and studied composition. A requiem she composed was recorded at its premiere performance on Remembrance Day 2016 by the school's choral society and the Bliss Sinfonia. The following year she began studying medicine at Bristol University. Committed to young philanthropy, she is closely involved in grant-giving from the endowment established with Suffolk Community Foundation by her fundraising walk in 2009, as described in this book.

    For further information see www.maydelarue.com

  • This is an enchanting book that any parent will relate to. Full of wise observations on life as seen through the eyes of a ten-year-old child. Delightful and moving.

    MIRANDA AND WILLIAM KENDALL DL

    This moving story is living proof of how philanthropy is open to everyone and of how even a child’s walk on the coast with a parent can turn into such a seismic inspiration.

    DAVID SHEEPSHANKS CBE DL

    FORMER CHAIRMAN, SUFFOLK AND UK COMMUNITY FOUNDATIONS

    This will be an inspirational read for anyone wondering about how to encourage a spirit of giving in young people, for anyone embarking on their own philanthropic journey and for anyone interested in working with their local Community Foundation.

    THERESA LLOYD

    FOUNDER DIRECTOR, PHILANTHROPY UK

    AUTHOR (WITH DR. BETH BREEZE), ‘RICHER LIVES’

    May’s touching book provides an insight into the special nature of this beautiful part of the world. The East Coast is rich in culture and heritage, and it is heart-warming to have these qualities portrayed so personally and in aid of such an important cause.

    ROGER WRIGHT CBE

    CHIEF EXECUTIVE, SNAPE MALTINGS

    A smashing read evoking the special nature of this stretch of our coastline.

    ADAM BURROWS

    NATURAL ENGLAND

    A fantastic celebration of a journey along the Suffolk coast, sharing the best of all that binds us inextricably to the natural world through the lens of intergenerational discovery.

    MICHAEL STRAND

    SUFFOLK WILDLIFE TRUST

    This beautiful and deeply personal account of ten-year-old May’s journey along our incomparable Suffolk coast challenges us to rediscover the wisdom of childhood, the difference between achievement and fulfilment, and whether we are ‘soldier, poet, or soldier-poet.’ Reminding us of the life-changing power of music, May recalls the parts music played in her walk. Above all, she invites us to make that journey ourselves, a ‘sort of treasure hunt without any clues,’ asking: “so what are you going to do?”

    PHILIP SHAW OBE

    CHAIRMAN OF THE TRUSTEES, THE CHORAL FOUNDATION FOR ST MARY-LETOUR CHURCH, IPSWICH

    FORMER DIRECTOR, SUFFOLK YOUTH ORCHESTRA

    A lovely insight into a very beautiful part of the world, rich in culture and heritage.

    JO HENRY, BOOKBRUNCH

    This is a lovely portrait of a very special part of the world and a hugely inspirational story.

    EDWARD CREASY, 2021/22 HIGH SHERIFF OF SUFFOLK

    It has been a privilege to be a part of May’s journey. This moving story will provide an inspiration for many people from all walks of life.

    STEPHEN SINGLETON, CHIEF EXECUTIVE, SUFFOLK COMMUNITY FOUNDATION

  • ☆☆☆☆☆ Simply heartwarming

    ☆☆☆☆☆ Inspiring

    ☆☆☆☆☆ Wonderfully descriptive

    ☆☆☆☆☆ The importance of nature in family relationships

    ☆☆☆☆☆ Inspiring and enlightening

    ☆☆☆☆☆ A triumph

    ☆☆☆☆☆ Delightful walk along Suffolk's heritage coastline and AONB

    ☆☆☆☆☆ Will resonate with any parent

    ☆☆☆☆☆ A must read!

    ☆☆☆☆☆ A gentle and delightful book, Fifty Miles with My Dad is about the simple things in life in tune with slowing down, observing and seeing what is right before you.

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What people are saying

 

“☆☆☆☆☆ Inspiring and enlightening. This is a captivating account of a father and young daughter not only exploring the fascinating Suffolk coast but inspiring each other and shaping the course of their lives. The narrative is beautifully crafted with skill and humour. A gentle page-turner which will resonate with any parent (and probably with young teens, too).”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆ A must read! This is a charming read which should appeal to children, young adults and parents. In it a father seeks to teach his daughter important lessons about life, people, philosophy and Nature. There is plenty also for anyone interested in the history and natural science of the Suffolk coastline from Felixstowe to Lowestoft. It is a gentle exploration of both the environment and the father-daughter relationship as May grows from being an inquisitive child to a thoughtful young woman. Highly recommended!”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆ This absolutely delightful book will appeal to any adult or child who takes a genuine interest in life, its meaning and the world around them.
The concept is simple: a daughter's fifty-mile seaside walk with her Dad done to raise badly needed money for local charities. But, apart from the lovely descriptions of the beautiful surrounding Suffolk landscape and coastline, the local people and their livelihoods and the various stopover points, it is really the philosophy, teaching and father-to-daughter discussion about what life really is, and what we should think about it, that totally absorbs the reader. The deep-seated love of the father for his offspring and the way he so gently prods her through the medium of their conversations together to think about her future life and what matters on a moral as well as intellectual level is utterly wonderful and, as one progresses through the book, the reader understands ever more how meticulously he has planned every step of the way to create meaning and something lasting for her. It really is a unique book about history, nature and philosophy all rolled into one. There could be no greater gift from any father to his daughter than a keepsake of precious time spent together such as this, so packed as it is throughout with wisdom, humility and understanding. Ultimately, it is a book about love.”

 
 

“☆☆☆☆☆ Inspiring. Purchased this book for my niece who is embarking on her own philanthropic journey, I'm excited to watch May continue to inspire more young leaders in our community.”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆ A wonderful father and daughter experience. This really is the most charming book and I have so enjoyed hearing the wonderful jokes and anecdotes between Colin and his daughter May amidst the backdrop of the Suffolk Coast.
The writing is wonderfully descriptive whether it is May describing yet another 'Embarrassing Dad' moment or in her comments on the surroundings they find themselves in.
Even though I have lived in Suffolk all my life I learnt so many interesting nuggets of information and would highly recommend this to anyone of any age.”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆ Simply heartwarming. Not only did I love reading about one of my favourite English coastlines but it was the relationship between father and daughter that I found particularly touching. As we rush about in this world chasing our tails, I loved the way time slowed down as Colin and May spent precious hours together making memories and entertaining us along the way! Beautifully captured and written.”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆ Reading this book was a wonderful experience. It is extremely well written: the language is beautiful, the attention to detail is perfect and interesting. The book has lovely photos, and the funny remarks and inspiring conversations between father and daughter reflect a very close relationship. In addition, the book is filled with lots of historical information and visits to interesting buildings. The observations of nature along the Suffolk coast made me Google species to learn more. When Colin talks about wartime in Guernsey, I realised the hardship the islanders suffered.
This book contains so many interesting aspects, and gave me a reading experience I will treasure .”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆The importance of nature in family relationships. This is a lovely book to read if you are interested in the Suffolk coast and in nature, as it is an account of a walk by a father and daughter from Felixstowe to Lowestoft. It has lots of detail on the history and topography of the area as well as interesting and informative nature notes. But the delight comes in the father-daughter relationship which they have to navigate and the closeness which develops as they share this precious time together.”

“ ☆☆☆☆☆ Delightful walk along Suffolk’s heritage coastline and AONB. A charming tale of a charity walk by May de la Rue and her father in memory of a dear aunt.
The book’s rich descriptions of the amazing Suffolk coastline resonated with my own childhood memories of summer days spent on Southwold beach, remote walks at Dunwich, playing on the arcade at Lowestoft pier, and concern for the fire at Snape Maltings concert hall.
After reading the book I was left wishing to visit some new places - Alderton tunnel, Tunstall Forest, Dunwich Museum, Covehithe Church, Dingle Marshes, and was most interested by the history of Orford Ness, and how the Broads were formed.
The book is beautifully presented, especially the little detail of a page marker for the hardback edition.”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆ May de la Rue’s book is about a walk along the Suffolk coast and seen through the eyes of May, 10 years old, and her father. Together they explore local sites, meet Suffolk characters and fundraise for local charities as they go. A gentle and delightful book, Fifty Miles with My Dad is about the simple things in life in tune with slowing down, observing and seeing what is right before you.”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆This is an enchanting read which I did not want to put down. The thought-provoking father-daughter conversations gave me new insights into a part of the Suffolk coast I thought I knew well and has made me want to follow in May's footsteps. It is a book you will want to share with friends - I sent a copy to Australia!”

 

“☆☆☆☆☆ This charming book about a daughter and father walking along the beautiful Suffolk coast is a triumph. The wonderful exchanges between father and daughter will ring true for any parent and teenager alike. A deep love but with the inquisitive mind of a young woman jousting with the devoted experience of her father. All of this set in the backdrop of one of the most beautiful parts of England and many of the personalities that live there.
If you are a parent, a walker or just somebody who appreciates a very engaging and heartwarming read, this is truly a lovely book and I would highly recommend it.”